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ONLINE DATING

YOU READY FOR IT?




ONLINE DATING FOR SOME CAN BE A TERRIFYING EXPERIENCE. (I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND). ALOT OF MY FEAR WASN'T CAUSE I ACTUALLY KNEW, BUT MORE BASED ON WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAID. I THOUGHT I'D NEVER DO IT. THEN ONE DAY, I SAID "F IT!" AND THE DOOR OPENED. EVEN LEAD ME TO CREATE A COMPANY WHERE I HELPED MEN WITH THEIR DATING PROFILES. THE FEAR OF PERCEPTION, WHAT'S OUT THERE, WHAT WOULD BE NEXT, ARE ALL REASONS WE GET AFRAID TO TAKE THE CHANCE.


DATING APPS CAN BE GREAT IF YOU GO INTO IT WITH THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE, COMMON SENSE AND OPEN MIND.


DON'T BE TOO PUT OFF BY DATING APPS FOR THE REASON OF NOT KNOWING SOMEONE...CAUSE YOU ALSO DON'T KNOW THE MAN AT THE CLUB, OR THE WOMAN AT THE GROCERY STORE EITHER. (JUST A THOUGHT)


BECAUSE WE ARE ALL IN DIFFERENT STAGES OF GROWTH, WHETHER NEWLY OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP, OR OUTTA ONE FOR A LONG TIME, OR EVEN IN ONE AND CAN HAVE OTHERS, SOME ASSUMPTIONS CAN'T BE MADE BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY VARIETIES. SO DON'T ASSUME!


ONE GREAT THING I DID IN THE BEGINNING THAT WORKED FOR ME WAS CREATE MY PROFILE, LOOKED AROUND ON THE APPS, THE PEOPLE, THE COMMUNITY AND HOW IT WORKED (BUTTONS ETC), BUT DIDN'T GO OUT OR CONTACT ANYONE OR RESPOND, UNTIL I FELT COMFORTABLE. I GOT MY FEET WET. LOL


SO FOR THOSE OPEN TO MAYBE CHECKING OUT DATING APPS, HERE ARE JUST A FEW TIPS TO GET YOU STARTED.


10 TIPS

  • DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER

  • DO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT SO ITS EASIER TO WEED OUT WHAT YOU DON'T

  • DON'T POST PICS WITH YOU AND A MILLION PEOPLE

  • DON'T GIVE OUT TOO MUCH PERSONAL INFO

  • TAKE PRIDE IN THE PICS YOU POST. NO MESSY SPACES...YUCK

  • DON'T ASSUME EVERYONE IS LOOKING FOR THE SAME THING

  • DO USE COMMON SENSE

  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO RESPOND TO EVERYONE

  • DON'T BE MEAN...NO REASON FOR THAT

  • DO REPORT CREEPY PROFILES...IT HELPS THE COMMUNITY


THERE'S SO MANY MORE TIPS THAT I HAVE GIVEN CLIENTS WHEN ITS COMES TO ONLINE DATING, THESE ARE JUST A START. IF YOU WANT MORE OR A MORE IN DEPTH CONVO ABOUT HE DATING APP JOURNEY FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME AND SIGN UP FOR A LIFE COACHING SESSION AND WE CAN DELVE IN!


OH! MAKE SURE TO NOT FORGET TO HAVE FUN! ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE AND ALWAYS REMEMBER REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION.


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